BE SWEET TO YOURSELF.

I was beginning to slack on my new found passion and I must apologize for the long wait. The exams, the sit in cats and the assignments and all that to do with school work must have gotten the best of me.

I think this instance reminds me of something my best friend used to tell me when you let other things start to occupy your mind other than the most important thing.

 Making yourself happy was one of those things. Concentrating on making other people happy other than yourself was a very sure way of making those same people unhappy.

“You cannot make other people happy unless you yourself are happy” as he used to call it, its lie trying to build a house from the top without the foundation.

The foundation of the most basic things such as love, happiness, kindness among other was simple. Teach how to do all those to yourself. If you want to learn to love better to people, then love yourself first.

You want to learn to be kind to people, be kind to yourself first. I mean you cannot be mean to yourself and expect to be kind to others. The best of all the things you wish to do to others learn to do them to yourself first.

Waking up everyday, and reminding yourself you need to love yourself first, be  kind to yourself first and deciding to just be happy every time you wake up is the surest way to achieve those qualities.

These qualities are just infectious. They come naturally when you around the people you love. If the people you meet will just see a beautiful aura around. It’s a beautiful feeling or thing when people describe you as,

            “That kind lady/man”

            “That loving lady/man”

The best description one could ever wish for is that of that happy lady/man. That loveable person is what you desired; it shall all be yours if you wish to have it. But the sacrifice you have to make is to train how to love yourself first, kind to yourself first.

Learning to love you first is the greatest love of all.

Xxx,

Angie